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Younger Widows
1 Timothy 5:11-16
11 But refuse younger widows, for when they have grown wanton against Christ, they desire to marry, · WEB
The refusal is explained by a pledge rather than by need, and the instruction that follows is the opposite of the one the false teachers were giving.
Verse 11 refuses younger widows the enrollment, and verse 12 gives the reason: they incur judgment because they have set aside their first pledge. A pledge implies a commitment made at enrollment, which confirms that the register of the previous verses was an undertaking rather than a benefit.
So the objection is not that they might remarry. It is that they would be promising something they may not be able to keep, and the letter treats a broken commitment as the serious matter.
Verse 13 describes what idleness does with the freedom, and the letter is unsparing: going about from house to house, and not only idle but gossips and busybodies, saying what they should not. The second word is the same concern the letter has raised about men obsessed with disputes 1 Timothy 6:4 — the disorder is not confined to one sex.
Verse 14 gives the instruction, and its content is the striking thing. Marry, bear children, manage the household. Written in a letter that has just described teachers forbidding marriage 1 Timothy 4:3, the counsel is a direct reversal, and the stated purpose is to give the adversary no occasion for reproach.
Verse 16 closes by returning the burden to families that can carry it, so that the assembly may relieve those who are truly widows — the phrase the whole section began with 1 Timothy 5:3. The resources are finite, and the letter says so.
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