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Do You Love Me?
John 21:15-19
15 So when they had eaten their breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of Jonah, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I have affection for you.” He said to him, “Feed my lambs.” · WEB
Three denials at a fire are answered by three questions at a fire, and each answer comes with work.
So when they had eaten their breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, "Simon, son of Jonah, do you love me more than these?" John 21:15.
The restoration happens after the meal rather than before it — he is fed first, which is its own kindness — and it is conducted in front of the others, because the failure had been public.
The name used is the old one. Not Peter, the rock; Simon, son of Jonah, which is what he was called the day he was first brought John 1:42. They are starting again from the beginning.
More than these is left ambiguous and probably deliberately. The most natural reading points at the other six, and it is the one comparison Peter had made himself: even if all will be made to stumble because of you, I will never be Matthew 26:33. The claim to love him more than the rest is the thing being gently raised.
"Yes, Lord; you know that I have affection for you." He said to him, "Feed my lambs."
Two words for love are in play across the three exchanges, and the English translations divide over how much weight to put on the difference. What is not in doubt is that Peter, who once compared himself favorably with everyone in the room, will no longer make a claim beyond what he can support, and appeals instead to what the questioner knows.
He said to him again a second time, "Simon, son of Jonah, do you love me?" John 21:16.
The second is the same question with the comparison dropped. And the second commission is tend my sheep — a different verb, the shepherd's whole work rather than feeding alone.
He said to him the third time... Peter was grieved because he asked him the third time John 21:17.
The grief is recorded and the reason is not stated, and the reader supplies it. Three denials at a charcoal fire; three questions at a charcoal fire. He knows what is being counted.
This is not humiliation. It is the opposite — a man who failed publicly three times is given three public opportunities to say the other thing, and the wound is opened exactly as wide as it needs to be to close properly.
"Lord, you know everything. You know that I have affection for you."
It is the best answer in the chapter. He has stopped testifying about himself — his track record on that is not good — and appeals entirely to what the other man can see. It is the same move the blind beggar made: I cannot argue, but here is what is true John 9:25.
"Feed my sheep."
Each answer is met with work, and the work is the shepherd's own from chapter ten John 10:11. He is not restored to a private peace but to a job, and the flock he is handed is called my three times over. He is under-shepherd and nothing more, which is what he later tells other elders in a letter 1 Peter 5:2–4.
"When you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and another will dress you and carry you where you don't want to go" John 21:18.
Now he said this, signifying by what kind of death he would glorify God John 21:19. The writer explains, as he did of lifted up John 12:33. Peter had said he would lay down his life and could not John 13:37; he is now told that he will, and the phrase stretch out your hands was ordinary usage for crucifixion.
"Follow me."
Two words, and they are the same two he heard on this shore at the beginning. Everything in between — the boasting, the sword, the fire, the denials — is folded up, and the instruction is simply reissued.
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